The adage that beauty is in the eye of the beholder posits a subjective interpretation of physical attractiveness. Yet there is strong consensus between observers as to which individuals are beautiful. To what extent are evaluations of beauty agreed-upon within and across cultures? And insofar as there is agreement regarding what qualifies as beautiful, what explains this consensus?
In the U.S. there may be racial differences in the perception of ideal body shape (Cohn and Adler 1992; Lovejoy 2001; Webb, Looby, and Fults-McMurtery 2004), but assessment of facial attractiveness does not vary by race (Cunningham et al. 1995; Moss, Miller, and Page 1975). Moreover, there is at least some evidence of cross-cultural consensus in rating facial attractiveness (Cunningham et al. 1995). This cross-cultural consensus is often interpreted as providing evidence that preferences for physical attractiveness are universal evolutionary adaptations, and insofar as physical attractiveness may be linked with reproductive potential such evolutionary adaptations are plausible. Indeed, there is evidence that individuals with symmetric features are preferred as partners and symmetry is associated with parasite resistance (Thornhill and Gangestad 1993).
However, it is clear that perceptions of physical attractiveness are also subject to social forces. For example, ratings of physical attractiveness are higher when the target is believed to be a citizen of a high-status nation (Kowner 1996). In western societies, ideals of female beauty, particularly female body shape, have changed notably over historic time. Examining data on Miss America pageant winners and Playboy centerfolds, Freese and Meland find that these women’s waist-to-hip ratio varied systematically over the 20th century (Freese and Meland 2002). Likewise, these cultural icons have become increasingly thin (Garner et al. 1980). In fact, modern preferences for women’s BMI may lead men to seek women who are too thin for optimal fertility (McClintock 2011). Examination of male centerfolds over recent decades suggest that ideals for men’s bodies have also changed, becoming increasingly lean and muscular (Leit, Pope, and Gray 2001). Not only is ideal male body composition historically variant, women’s preferences for men’s beardedness suggest social rather than purely evolutionary influences: Women find men with light stubble most attractive for either short or long-term relationships (Neave and Shields 2008), yet shaving (and hence stubble) is a modern innovation.
Still, despite both evolutionary and social forces that encourage agreement in physical attractiveness ratings, perceptions of beauty are nevertheless somewhat subjective. Perhaps most interestingly, perceptions of beauty are altered for individuals in committed romantic relationships. Not only do partnered individuals rate the physical attractiveness of other-sex targets less favorably than do single individuals (Simpson, Lerma, and Gangestad 1990), they also rate their romantic partners more favorably than do third-party unacquainted raters (Barelds et al. 2011). To some extent this may capture the subjective component of physical attractiveness preferences—we likely select partners that adhere to our own idiosyncratic deviations from the agreed-upon cultural idea. However, given the tendency to rate potential alternative partners more negatively, idealizing one’s partner may also serve as a means of maintaining the relationship. In any case, when in love, it seems that beauty may indeed be (partially) in the eye of the beholder.
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Webb, Tammy T., E. Joan Looby, and Regina Fults
I'm teaching myself how to love my beauty again. In today's society, people are so quick to fat-shame, fit-shame, or tag some for shame onto you because you don't fit their mold of beautiful. If there's something about yourself that you don't like [i.e. your weight, your looks, etc], it's up to you to change it to your satisfaction. Not someone else's.
I accept that I'm never going to be a "looker" or that someone would take a double look at me due to society's idea of beauty. I'm beautiful in my own way. Yes, I have some flaws [my weight] that I'm going to work on to my satisfaction. The end result? I'm going to be happy and love me.
My advice to anyone that's reading this column: Your physical beauty fades over time, but your inner beauty will be beautiful forever. Love yourself before seeking someone else's validation. Everyone is a gem. Some are upfront and others are well hidden. You are a canvas, create your own art and let others marvel at your grace and beauty.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. The preception of beauty is subjective. It seems that we often forget that. You may not be someone's ideal of beauty and that's okay. If you feel beautiful, that is all that matters.
In David Hume's essay, "Moral and Political," 1742, he wrote:
"Beauty in things exists merely in the mind which contemplates them."
Every morning when you wake up, go stare at yourself in the mirror and say something positive about yourself. Say at least 3 things... scratch that... say 4 things about yourself that you love about yourself. And every night before bed, say 4 different things that you want to improve about yourself.
When we come to a place in our mind that we're accepted for who we are, everything else will fall into place. But... within health reasonings. Don't do any changes to yourself that would hurt you physically, emotionally, or mentally. That is not the answer. You want to come from a healthy place. Of love. Of joy. And be proud of yourself. No regrets.
So, if society knocks on your door and says that you need the newest beauty trend to be beautiful, smile and close the door. Don't let the outside world or anyone that doesn't know you rate your beauty. You are not a number.